Karma and Destiny Compatibility Report

Getting involved with this person will shed light on your insecurities regarding love, intimacy and dependence, because they'll push your buttons from the very beginning. Yours simply can't be a light, casual connection, because your present-day bond will recreate an old, intense bond from a past life. You'll feel strongly about this person -- good or bad, and likely swinging back and forth between the two. In a previous lifetime, this person betrayed you, whether it was as a lover or as a warrior whom you thought would always be by your side. Now, those same old insecurities will flare up again. You'll feel jealous and perturbed, even as you're intensely turned on -- especially when your lover refuses to soothe your feelings by telling you where they were or with whom, or how they really feel about you. There's a definite element of emotional manipulation and control here, and it's up to you how to handle it. Will you decide it's too much drama and move on, or stay locked in the cycle of attraction, jealousy, obsession, manipulation and betrayal? There is, of course, a third option: Use these powerful, uncomfortable feelings to transform yourself. You'll have to deal with those insecurities at some point, after all, and this relationship will certainly give you the forum in which to do so.

This won't be the most even-keeled, stable relationship you've ever been involved in. The instability between you has happened before in other lives, and it's repeating in this one. There's something about this person that you'll recognize right off, which will excite you early on and at an elemental level: You'll see them and your heart will beat faster. They'll touch you and you'll actually shiver. Their ideas will seem radical and their spontaneous approach to life will energize you -- even as it frightens you. Unconsciously, you'll be recalling that past-life connection when you wanted to be with this person but couldn't, whether because they were unreliable or because circumstances tore you apart. In this life, again, unless there are other, much more stabilizing factors between you, don't expect this relationship ever to move along a comfortable, predictable path; if nothing else, this person will hit buttons inside you that make you feel as if you're walking on the wild side. Instead of getting a comfortable, safe connection, you'll find all your expectations turned inside-out. You'll be challenged to learn a whole new way to be -- and this will likely come along with plenty of irritation. This person will seem unpredictable, but even more than that, they will challenge the very basis of how you view the world, and yourself. Are you ready for that?

The connection between you will be profound; through the course of a relationship with this person, you will learn to deepen your perceptions and pay far more attention to the details of a situation than you have in the past, as well as to your own responses to that situation. This process won't always be comfortable for you, especially if you're used to rationalizing life rather than immersing yourself in your full range of emotions. This relationship will call up old, long-buried feelings from a past-life connection with this person, in which they delved deeply into your thoughts and emotions, sometimes even trying to control how you perceived life. Now you'll notice this in the compelling way that they dominate the conversation -- which you may be happy for them to do, because what an interesting conversation it will be! Your partner will be interested in discussing only the deepest of subjects, and your curious mind will only be too happy to follow their lead. Don't be surprised if you scare yourself at times, or if they scare you. Take this association as a chance to explore your own depths as a human being, and grow to know your own mind.

This person was your teacher or your mentor in another lifetime, and they will have a similar role in this one as they teach you, both directly and by example, to think in a careful, thorough and steady manner. Your conversations will hinge on solid communication and building trust. If there are any difficult aspects between you that would otherwise make this a troublesome relationship, this aspect will help smooth things over, because you'll have a wonderfully strong foundation that includes positive prior-life karma. Your partner will give you good advice and you'll look up to them on an intellectual level. As you get to know them better, you'll strive to make your own thinking as sharp, organized and efficient as theirs. You'll even learn through this relationship to express yourself more clearly and efficiently, and with greater confidence. Making plans together should be especially instructive for you, whether they're plans for your next date, a vacation that you'll take together or a way to advance your own future. Your partner could be quite helpful in preparing you mentally to take on greater responsibility at work, school or in life.

Mars is all about what moves you -- your passions, your drives, your desires and motivations. No Mars aspects between two people looking for love is kind of a big deal, because it's such a basic connection point. How will you form a romantic attraction if you don't get turned on by the same things? Where one of you wants a quiet, intimate evening at home, the other wants a heady night out painting the town red, which means you'll find it really hard to have a good time together. The truth is, there will have to other strong connections to make this relationship work! If you can separate romance from passion, maybe you can work out a romantic connection that satisfies both of you; but that's a big if. You may both be better off finding someone who sparks you up more than this relationship is likely to do.

Jupiter, the Planet of Philosophy, is all about faith, belief, ideals and spirituality. This Planet governs where all your biggest dreams lie; it can reveal your paths to success and personal growth. With no Jupiter aspects between you, your core values just won't match up -- which could mean that this relationship will be a casual, short-lived affair. To forge a long-term bond, you'll have to develop some deep and meaningful points of connection, such as similar faiths, ambitions or visions of the future. You two might not match up in those areas, so try not to expect more from this relationship than you're likely to get.

Your partner's energy and desires will hit buttons within you that you may not even know exist, but which will evoke powerful responses in you. You may be attracted to them at first, but you'll grow to see their passion as representative of everything you're trying to stifle within yourself -- and you'll try to stifle it within them as well. In another lifetime you were hurt by this person's passion; perhaps they were your lover and broke your heart, or perhaps they were an enemy warrior who bested you in battle. Whatever that long-ago connection was, in this life you'll feel threatened by everything within them that represents energy, warmth, independence and ardor. Their temper will scare you, and so you'll respond with cold control -- but just as you did in another life, you'll find that you've chosen a formidable opponent. This person won't simply back down in the face of your attempts to enforce restrictions upon them; they'll stand up and fight, which will only frustrate you more. If you can take that as a sign that it's time to find a new approach, then you'll be taking a big step toward resolving this karma, but it won't be easy. You'll have to examine why their passion scares you so, and you'll have to begin letting loose your own passion rather than keeping it so tightly reined in. The result may be flaring tempers and arguments of epic proportions, but if you can find middle ground, you'll learn the lessons you need to take from this connection.

You share similar security needs, or at least complementary ones. You may have experienced similar past-life traumas, which led to the particular security needs that you have in this life. Perhaps you both lived in grinding poverty in another life, so now you're both attuned to working hard and ensuring that you have enough money in the bank and food on the table to feel comfortable; or maybe you both experienced some form of emotional betrayal in the past, so now you both work to ensure that your relationships have a firm foundation of trust and intimacy. Whatever your prior-life traumas might be, you're both willing to do what it takes in this life to avoid living through those same experiences again, and you'll work together toward this end. You may even do so unconsciously, without having to spell out your feelings or your intentions on this level. This will make both of you feel quite comfortable together. You'll know almost instinctively that if other factors are in place -v affection, love, goals and so on -- you'll be able to create a positive, mutually supportive connection that can last far into the future.

Everything you think you need in order to feel secure in a relationship will be challenged through the course of this affair, simply by your partner being the individual that they are. Even though you might be quite attracted to their individuality in the beginning, you'll gradually start to criticize them more and more for being the way they are -- or, more precisely, for being different from how you expect them to be. This dynamic will feel uncomfortably familiar to you both, as it will echo the parent-child or mentor-student relationship you shared in a past life, when you tried to help them become a better person through criticism and control. This, however, is the lifetime in which you should try to learn, once and for all, that those tactics don't work in helping another person become who they're destined to be. The truth is, you shouldn't be 'helping' them on that level at all; their own personality and development are up to them, not you. You're no longer in charge of their education or maturation as you were in another lifetime; now, you're equals, and you have as much to learn from them as they do from you. Thus, you should focus this time around on your own education rather than theirs. Strive to treat them with fairness and respect, rather than that chilly criticism and control. Inspect your own feelings and needs carefully in order to learn more about why you feel the urge to put them in a box rather than letting them shine out as the individual that they are. Might it be that you're actually afraid they'll outshine you?

Even if you respect your partner's intellect and are initially attracted to their mind, over time, you'll find yourself trying to best them in every conversation. They'll pose an opinion, and you'll counter it -- even if you secretly agree.